First Things First
You've just said "yes" to marriage! To feel serenity and joy on your wedding day, begin planning these important details right away! Planning a wedding is a complicated process. You'll have myriad decisions to make and an infinite number of details to arrange. As soon as you're officially engaged and the wedding date confirmed, begin the planning process to avoid last-minute frustrations and even disasters. Discover here how to handle some of these traditional, "first-things-first" details. These are general timelines; therefore, popular sites or professionals may be reserved earlier.
Clergy
Before you publicly announce a specific wedding date, reserve the church or other location for the date and time you will be married, and make all the necessary arrangements with the clergy or other official who will perform the ceremony.
Also before announcing your wedding date, confirm the availability of your reception site. Reservations for some popular reception locations must be made a year or more in advance.
Bridesmaids/Groomsmen
Select the bridesmaids. Then, select the dresses they will wear and the bride's wedding dress. When you have made these decisions, you'll find that many details will be much easier to plan and others will simply fall into place. Traditionally, bridesmaids pay for their own dresses. Select the groomsmen and make arrangements to rent tuxedos at this time, as well.
Gift Registration
You'll have fun with this step, and you'll find it will have positive, practical results. To begin your planning details on an upbeat note, register for the gifts you really need or want as you begin life in your new home.
Contact department, jewelry and specialty stores to choose and register silver, china, crystal and other gifts you desire. By registering, you are making gift buying much more easy and convenient for your friends and guests. Be sure everyone knows where you are registered.
Contact department, jewelry and specialty stores to choose and register silver, china, crystal and other gifts you desire. By registering, you are making gift buying much more easy and convenient for your friends and guests. Be sure everyone knows where you are registered.
Guest List
Begin compiling your guest list. Be sure to obtain a guest list from the groom's mother. She will depend on you to suggest the size of her list.
It's helpful to keep your list on file cards in alphabetical order. Mark each card according to whether you will invite the guest to the wedding and reception "®" or the ceremony only "©".
Mark those you prefer to receive a wedding announcement only, and no invitation to either event, with an "A".
Wedding Rentals
Contact your wedding rental professional six months before the wedding date, if you can. Arrange a meeting to discuss ideas for your wedding and reception. You might choose from dozens of colors and styles in table linens, chair covers, candelabra, center pieces, china, glassware and flatware, serving pieces - some brides even choose tents, tables, chairs, lighting, bars and dance floors. Discover how your rental professional can assist you throughout the wedding and reception planning process.
Many larger rental centers offer complete planning services, which can make your other tasks go much smoother. The wedding-rental center could be a one-stop-shop for many of your needs for parties and showers, the rehearsal dinner, wedding, reception, and even the invitations.